I'm a real laid back girl, but when it comes to relationships I got
problems like everyone else. If you asked me what bothers me the most,
I'd say desperate people who settle for anyone. I cannot stand when
someone gets in a relationship, just for the sake of have a girlfriend
or boyfriend. It's not fair to anyone in the situation.
I'm the complete opposite of this personality. I relax, find one person I think is perfect, and peruse only them. The funny thing is, I am starting to realize that this is not as noble a strategy as I once thought. Instead of being the desperate person who settles, I'm the desperate girl who asks everything of one guy. Not only is that not okay, its not working.
I've been beginning to wonder if the people who settle know something I don't. Maybe relationships are more about making things work, with someone else who's willing, then waiting around for the perfect person. I have tried letting go of my ideals and giving anyone a chance, but it just doesn't feels right. I'm not done being more flexible yet, but I know one thing I'm going to do for sure: give those settlers a break.
I'm the complete opposite of this personality. I relax, find one person I think is perfect, and peruse only them. The funny thing is, I am starting to realize that this is not as noble a strategy as I once thought. Instead of being the desperate person who settles, I'm the desperate girl who asks everything of one guy. Not only is that not okay, its not working.
I've been beginning to wonder if the people who settle know something I don't. Maybe relationships are more about making things work, with someone else who's willing, then waiting around for the perfect person. I have tried letting go of my ideals and giving anyone a chance, but it just doesn't feels right. I'm not done being more flexible yet, but I know one thing I'm going to do for sure: give those settlers a break.
BY QZER
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